Convener:
Annie Rigby
Participants:
Shelley Silas, Dan Willis, Kathryn Stewart, Anna Coombs, Sophie Trott, Jake
Orr, Sian Rees, Edward Lewis, Jon Pashley, Clara Giraud, Solene Marie, Shipra
Ogra, Alice Hoult, Jen Tan, Lian Bell, Matt Trueman & others
Summary of
discussion, conclusions and/or recommendations:
My washing machine takes me about 7 minutes of time to
use. It saves me, perhaps, about 2 hours – the time it would take to wash my
clothes by hand. BUT I fill this
saved time with more work. What if I made a deal with one of my time-saving
appliances, and promised to use the time it gives me for leisure?
ACTION:
I invite you to make a deal with one of your time-saving appliances to use the
time it saves you for your own leisure. Please tell me the story of what
happens.
Coming up with the idea for this invitation was the
last thing that happened at the session. Here’s some of the things we
talked about along the way.
People are afraid of empty time. It’s more comforting to
smoke / check messages on our phones…
What are we scared of? Feeling exposed? Confronting our own
mortality? Being alone? Not being in control?
It’s really good for us to have empty time.
We should take Open Space into our own lives. Remember the
principles. The law of two feet.
We read more digitally now. Books and paper are nice things.
A lot of us feel addicted to email, Twitter, Facebook.
The speed of communication now gives us less space to think.
Theatre and live events create empty space for people.
When we used to get photos printed and had to wait for them,
it was a surprise when the images arrived. And we looked at them.
We’re rarely properly present and committed to what’s around
us.
Not having time for yourself means you haven’t got time to
know who you are.
Getting information is easy. So do we value it less? Do we
remember the things we look up on Google?
Twitter has democratised our professional relationships. We
can start conversations that lead to things happening.
Technology forms communities but it also separates us from
our geographical communities.
There is a pressure to be visible.
Tactics to reclaim our relationship with time and how we
communicate:
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Napkins you can wrap your phone in that block
the signal – they say “I’m dedicating this time for me”
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Setting times where we check our messages
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Waiting 24 hours before we respond to anything –
training other people’s expectations of us
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Have a conversation with the people you work
with about their expectations about how fast / often you respond. Their
expectations might not be as onerous as your expectations of yourself.
Responding is perhaps easier than initiating – is this why
we dither with our messages rather than getting on with our ideas.
We resent that technology sets our relationship with time.
We feel like we have to respond to everything as quickly as possible. We don’t.
We can set our own pace.
You are responsible for the feed you receive.
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